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a cornish retreat that helps you find your spark again.

  • LocationPortmellon, Cornwall
  • Dates21–25 Jan or 28 Jan–1 Feb 2027
  • Capacity3 – 6 guests
  • Price range£470 – £670

Made for creative minds who like their getaways a little more homemade. This retreat whisks you away to Southern Cornwall for some seaside air, morning swims, picnics on the beach as well as afternoons of scrap booking and plenty of delicious, healthy meals with new and like-minded friends. These retreats are wholesome, slow-paced, and nourishing. You can WFH and sneak in swims between meetings or join us for a hike before we craft. The workshops are there if you want them, but if you'd rather spend the afternoon reading on the beach or going for a solo explore, that's just as welcome. And unlike other retreats, no car, no problem. You can get a 15 minute bus from St Austell station into Mevagissey and walk just 15 minutes to the house! Or we can call you a taxi that'll have you at the house in 20 minutes. You'll come for the sea views but it'll be the friendships that you'll cherish the most.

january spaces drop 1st november

the days

Thursday
Arrive from 2pm and explore amongst friends before a long, lovely dinner. Finish the day playing cards, then slink off to bed for a sleep set against the crashing of waves.
Friday
Start your day with a swim and a coffee on the beach before we head off on a long walk and return to relax ahead of the workshop — or WFH and sneak in swims before joining the crafting workshop at 5pm. We'll end the day at the pub just opposite the beach.
Saturday
Take the morning at your own pace, then we head to the Lost Gardens of Heligan — just two miles up the road. A vast Victorian estate once tended by 22 gardeners, it was left to the brambles when most of them went to war in 1914 and never returned. Discovered again in the 1990s beneath decades of overgrowth and lovingly restored, it is one of the most quietly extraordinary places in Britain: a subtropical jungle of towering tree ferns, kitchen gardens still impossibly in flower, and the Mud Maid half-sleeping in the earth as if she's been there forever. We'll take our lunch on the go and treat ourselves to an ice cream or a pasty before heading back for an afternoon crafting workshop.
Sunday
Spend your morning however you wish before we explore further — perhaps some sleepy lanes or a quiet beach with spectacular views. We'll take our lunch on the go, head back for some quality alone time before more scrapbooking — sketching the shells in your pocket, pressing in your Heligan ticket stub, or giving a whole spread to a view that deserves it. Wind down with some games or curl up to watch a film.
Monday
WFH again, or explore with us. Stay as late as 5pm.

the rooms

Cowrie room
Cowrie room view
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cowrie
solo £670
come as a pair £520

Our finest room. With large windows offering a stunning view of the bay and comfy armchairs, you'll easily lose an afternoon reading here.

Periwinkle room
Periwinkle room view
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periwinkle
solo £620
come as a pair £470

A garden-facing room with a little more privacy, and plenty of space to spread out in.

Whelk room
Whelk room window
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whelk
solo £640
come as a pair £490

The largest and the brightest, tucked up on the top floor — you'll wake to the sea from your bed.

price includes

  • Four nights' stay in your chosen room
  • All meals, long and unhurried
  • all drinks included — from tea and coffee to soft drinks and alcoholic beverages
  • Guided walks and a daily craft workshop
  • A sketchbook to keep, all yours
Evening view from the house
Outdoor dinner at the house
Outside the house
Living room with sea view
Living room
Kitchen
Dinner
Snacks
Shower
Bathroom
Bathroom
Coffee and sitting area
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the food

All meals are included and unhurried — made from scratch, eaten together. Breakfasts are homemade granola with fresh fruit, or something warm and eggy to set you up for the day. Lunch is fresh bread, good cheese, soups, salads, something simple and satisfying. Dinners are the main event: a slow Sunday roast, a fragrant curry, homemade pesto with pasta, fish and chips eaten on the harbour.

All drinks are included too — coffee, tea, soft drinks, wine and more, whenever you like. And just next door, a small beach café does excellent coffee, cake and pastries if you fancy something between meals.

things to do

  • sea swimming
  • coastal walks & hiking
  • kayaking & paddleboarding (hire from next door)
  • scrapbooking workshops
  • filling in your gifted sketchbook
  • reading, exploring, doing absolutely nothing
  • The Lost Gardens of Heligan
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events

craft nights

structured, carefully curated evenings so you don't have to spend the first twenty minutes scrolling Pinterest.

  • Location21 Effra, Brixton
  • DatesFriday 23rd October
  • Time7:30–9:30pm
  • Capacity20 makers
  • Price£25 / evening
this month's craft
Witch Craft — October craft night

we started our craft nights because we kept having the same experience — scrolling pinterest for twenty minutes only to find the result disappointing. nettle craft nights are carefully planned with 3 stages: warm-up, experiment, create. we bring the materials, the homemade cake, the candles, the flowers and a plan so you can genuinely connect with yourself, your creativity and take a break from screens.

october is our favourite month, so this one is going to be our most atmospheric yet. think candlelight, the smell of dried herbs, pumpkins on the table, and homemade sweet treats. we'll start with spell jars — bringing back that making potions in the garden kind of feeling. you'll choose from an array of dried herbs and flowers, learn a little about what each one means, and set your own intention before sealing it in. then pumpkin carving — classic or ambitious, your call. and finally, leaf printing — turning what autumn has dropped at our feet into cards or miniature pieces of art. we're all about texture this october.

Craft night table
Craft night hall table
Art by Claudia, Millie and mum
Craft night table
Portrait drawing
Craft night hall table
Autumn leaves
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* free tea & coffee · cake · all crafting equipment provided

book club

come and natter about books that are nuanced, exciting and self-aware.

  • LocationVeraison Wines, Camberwell
  • DateMonday 5th October
  • Time7–9pm
  • Capacity20 readers
  • Price£12 / evening
this month's read
Hurricane Season by Fernanda Melchor

October is our favourite month at the nettle collective — the leaves are getting crunchy, the air has that particular bite to it, and halloween is just around the corner, which means we'll be bringing spook. So it feels only right that this month's book club pick is 'Hurricane Season' by Fernanda Melchor. It's witchy, it's feminist, it's beautifully written — dark and crisp and alive in the way that only the best October reads can be. It's a short read so don't fret if you've still got a book to finish.

Alison at book club
Books on bed
Natural wine glasses with bottles on the shelves behind
Dear Boy by Emily Berry
Book club
Books
Chéri
A cosy event room with wooden tables and wine glasses on the wall
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* bread from TOAD bakery & spreads · book not included

nettle & natter: sex, relationships and everything in between

bring your worries, your fails and your triumphs and let go for a while.

  • Locationto be decided
  • Datescoming soon
  • Capacity15 people
  • Price£6 / evening

When I was seventeen I got drunk with my friends in our local Spoons and, somewhere amongst the mass of Long Island Iced Tea jugs, we confessed that we'd masturbated. The conversation was bundled up in fear, shock, intense amusement, intense relief — and I've never looked back. I've been consuming fiction and non-fiction books alike on all matters sex and relationships, and even got myself an accreditation in teaching SRE. Though we're all progressing and taboos are thinning, I am still regularly sought out as a safe space for my friends to discuss their problems and their triumphs, and although I am immensely proud and grateful to hold this honour, it also shows how far we have to go. So, here we are: safety as the number one priority, absence of judgment at number two, and laughter at number three. Apologies to the straight, cis men — this event is not for you.

* a glass of wine and crisps for the table included

about us

Charlotte on a London bus
Coffee on a wooden deck
Sunlit oak trees in a park
Orange wine in glasses with natural wine bottles behind
Book on a towel at the beach
The Nettle Collective journal with candle, teapot and The Marriage Portrait book

our story

For as long as I can remember, I've had multiple different passions and as a child, it was great — but now, as an adult, I've had to spread my interests so thin some of them barely exist.

Hi, my name's Charlotte and I founded The Nettle Collective. I'm a writer and a tutor and I desperately love organising and running events. I've been wanting to create a space for multi-passionate people for four years and now I'm doing it. My main reason, really, is to create genuine connection, to create DEPTH. It's so easy to be lonely in London, it's so easy for your creativity to dry out or wither away. I've attended book clubs and craft nights and I've mostly found them stiff and awkward and uninspired. I don't want that. I want to really wriggle into the brain and plant seeds, so that our spaces are just the beginning of your projects, a motivator and somewhere you can dedicate your time and your energy to art and literature away from screens and social media. Most of all, I want people to leave feeling a little more themselves.

The retreats are the cornerstone of it all. I think to love London, you have to leave London sometimes. I want to take all the tender energy from the book club and the creative energy from the craft night and bring it to an affordable and worthwhile retreat where you take time for yourself in the company of like-minded and passionate people. As for nettle & natter, sexual wellbeing has and always will be a huge passion of mine and we just don't talk about it enough. We're very small right now and prepared to fail in many ways but I hope people do take a chance on us because I just know this is something special.

why nettle?

Nettles

My Mum is often found nestled into a hedge, studying the intricacies of an overlooked, everyday ecosystem. She loves bracken, blackberries, thistles and elderflowers but she has a particular fondness for nettles. The nettle has history; from folklore to textiles to soup and tea. It is medicinal. It is mighty. It is munificent. The spaces we create are imbued with the spirit of the nettle.

questions

can I come to the retreat alone?

Yes — all three rooms have solo options, starting from £570. Solo guests are welcomed warmly and have always found their people.

what is the cancellation policy?

Retreat bookings can be cancelled for a full refund within 7 days of booking. After that, they are non-refundable. Event tickets are non-refundable — if something unavoidable comes up, get in touch and we'll transfer your ticket to the next event. You're also welcome to pass your ticket to a friend.

when do retreat spaces open?

january spaces drop 1st november. sign up to the mailing list below to be the first to know.

do I need experience for craft nights?

None at all. The point of our craft nights is to get you in touch with your inner creative and give you the time, space and inspiration to continue a project at home.

do I need to have read the book for book club?

We'd love it if you had — but come along either way. The conversation is the heart of it.

are your events LGBTQ+ friendly?

Absolutely. Our retreats and nettle & natters are for women and LGBTQ+ only and our craft nights and book clubs are open to everyone.

can I bring a friend?

Yes — they just need their own ticket.

I have more questions.

Email us at thenettlecollective1@gmail.com and we'll get back to you.

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